Hypnotherapy for premature ejaculation
Premature ejaculation affects most men at some point in their life and it is one of the most common problems I treat in my London clinic. I see clients who have been suffering PE since their first sexual encounter as well as those for whom it only became an issue later in life.
Through the use of Lesserian™ curative hypnotherapy you can regain control and confidence without fear of the problem returning.
Premature ejaculation issues that hypnosis can resolve:
- Premature ejaculation – whether that be during masturbation or sex
- Sexual anxiety – you may worry that you’re not satisfying your partner
- Libido – your libido may have decreased or disappeared
- Relationships – perhaps your relationship is suffering or you avoid sexual encounters
- Sexual confidence – you might worry about how long you will last or that you’re sexually inexperienced
- Sex addiction – some sufferers have an underlying and unwanted sex addiction which can be addressed
- Penis hypersensitivity – you can reduce oversensitivity; thought to be a cause of PE
- Anxious feelings – self consciousness over your sexual performance
Once experienced, sufferers of PE often find themselves trapped in a vicious cycle. The anticipation of failure to control ejaculation creates anxious feelings. This in turn brings about the failure to control it and thus reinforces the expectation that it will happen again.
Premature ejaculation hypnotherapy – how does it work?
Hypnosis is traditionally used to control premature ejaculation through NLP, visualisations and positive suggestions. My issue with this method is that it does not attempt to resolve the reason why you can’t control it yourself, but instead attempts to override the body’s natural response. Our subconscious controls every bodily function and its objective is to protect us, to warn us and to keep us safe. If you attempt to suppress your premature ejaculation when your subconscious mistakenly believes it is required or deserved, then the PE will eventually return or manifest itself into a different symptom. In my London hypnotherapy practice, I have seen cases where previously ‘suppressed’ premature ejaculation manifested itself into impotency.
Why, Why, Why?
To ensure that your premature ejaculation is disposed of safely and permanently, my preference is to treat the root cause behind it rather than focusing on when it started and what triggers it now.
if there is no longer any cause, there can be no effect
So why do you suffer from premature ejaculation? You have probably puzzled over this many times before. Looked for reasons, triggers behind it. Perhaps you know why; an early sexual experience caused you embarrassment or feelings of inadequacy. Perhaps it’s been triggered by stress, depression or religious concerns. But knowing this doesn’t make the problem go away. Or maybe you can’t think of any reasons to explain it. But that doesn’t mean there is no cause, because for something to exist it has to have been created. It has to come from somewhere.
Beneath all the triggers and confirmation there is a single, root cause stored away in the subconscious mind. It’s something you can’t think of. Something small, easily forgotten, easily overlooked. It’s like that bit of grit in your eye. Once you find it, it can be hard to believe that something so small could have caused so much trouble.
It can take years for our problems, conditions and symptoms to get a good hold over us. Something that starts out as a minor irritation gets worse and worse until it causes us so much suffering that we eventually seek help to put it right.
How does curative hypnotherapy treat premature ejaculation?
Lesserian™ curative hypnotherapy is distinguished from all other forms of hypnotherapy, primarily by its use of logic. The therapist approaches each person without theories or preconceptions – except for one – that the answer to your problem lies only within your subconscious mind. With Lesserian™ curative hypnotherapy there is no need to suppress or manage your symptoms. By helping to resolve and correct the true cause, your premature ejaculation – along with any anticipation, anxiety and fear – can automatically fade away, until eventually your problem is nothing but a vague and distant memory.
With Lesserian™ curative hypnotherapy you will not be required to relive any traumatic or upsetting situation. All you will feel is beautifully relaxed.
Lesserian™ Curative Hypnotherapy Trademark
Over the years many practitioners have incorporated the word “Curative” when describing their treatment, despite providing more basic methods of hypnotherapy. Due to concern over the confusion that was being caused by this, the trademark “Lesserian™ Curative Hypnotherapy ” was registered to mark the difference. The name “Lesserian™” Curative Hypnotherapy is therefore protected by law and denotes the method of treatment that requires the understanding of how people create their problems, which is the necessary first step on the path to correcting the cause of, and resolving, a symptom / condition. Only hypnotherapists licensed as Lesserian™ are qualified to use this technique.
Susannah Saunders is the longest practising Lesserian™ curative hypnotherapist in London and has been in full time practice since 2003. She is a member of the General Hypnotherapy Register and can be found on the Lesserian Curative Hypnotherapist register.
If you would like to explore further about how curative hypnotherapy can help with premature ejaculation or other sexual issues, then please contact us to book an initial consultation. For information on fees and appointments, please click here.
At the City Hypnotherapy Centre, Susannah provides a safe and relaxing environment in which to explore your issues openly without judgment, and free from reliving unwanted emotions. Everything is treated in the strictest of confidence.