Hypnotherapy for Sexual problems
Many people experience sexual difficulties at some point in their life. Some of the most common sexual problems for men are erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety and premature ejaculation.
For women, the most commonly experienced sexual problem is vaginismus.
What causes sexual problems?
The cause to your sexual problem may be physical or psychological in nature. It’s important to rule out any physical causes with your GP prior to treatment. However, in such instances it is still possible to use hypnotherapy as a supplement to medical treatments, for instance in helping you to heal faster after an operation.
In many cases, however, sexual difficulties are the result of some underlying psychological issue, which can be triggered by stress, anxiety or fear.
How can you manage your sexual problem?
The simple answer is, not very well. We often spend time thinking about and analysing our problems, but in doing so it often makes it worse. By focusing on your sexual difficulty you highlight the anxiety that surrounds it, causing you to expect the problem to reoccur. Then when it does, the expectation is justified causing the pattern to repeat itself all over again.
Trying to control your sexual problem is like trying to stop blinking. You can try, but eventually the unthinking, subconscious part of the mind will override your attempts and that physiological response will take over automatically once again. Some people will try distraction techniques. Some attempt to avoid certain “triggers” to prevent the problem occurring. Others may use direct hypnosis suggestion to suppress it. But unfortunately, none of these methods resolve what caused it in the first place, and so eventually the problem will just keep reoccurring, and the anticipation will never go away.
Why, Why, Why?
The most effective way to cure your sexual problem completely and permanently, is to resolve what’s causing it; if there is no longer any cause, there can be no effect.
So why do you have this problem? You have probably puzzled over this many times before. Looked for reasons, triggers behind it. Perhaps you know why; previous sexual experiences have caused you embarrassment, pain or feelings of inadequacy. But knowing this doesn’t make the problem go away. Or maybe you can’t think of any reasons to explain it. But that doesn’t mean there is no cause, because for something to exist it has to have been created. It has to come from somewhere.
Beneath all the triggers and confirmation there is a single, root cause stored away in the subconscious mind. It’s something you can’t think of. Something small, easily forgotten, easily overlooked. It’s like that bit of grit in your eye. Once you find it, it can be hard to believe that something so small could have caused so much trouble.
It can take years for our problems, conditions and symptoms to get a good hold over us. Something that starts out as a minor irritation gets worse and worse until it causes us so much suffering that we eventually seek help to put it right.
Be free from your sexual problem?
Curative hypnotherapy is distinguished from all other forms of hypnotherapy primarily by its use of logic. The therapist approaches each person without theories or preconceptions – except for one – that the answer to your sexual problem lies only within your subconscious mind. With Curative Hypnotherapy there is no need to suppress or manage your symptoms. By resolving and correcting the true cause, your sexual problem - along with any anticipation, anxiety and fear - will automatically fade away, until eventually your problem is nothing but a vague and distant memory.
With curative hypnotherapy you will not be required to relive any traumatic or upsetting situation. All you will feel is beautifully relaxed
Next step…
If you would like to explore further about how curative hypnotherapy can help with your particular sexual problem, then please contact us to book an initial consultation.
At the City Hypnotherapy Centre, Susannah provides a safe and relaxing environment in which to explore your issues openly without judgment, and free from reliving unwanted emotions. Everything is treated in the strictest of confidence.